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Originally Posted by oberon
Hi Anon,
Yes, you could be confusing emotions. However, I believe that sexual orientation operates on a range from 100% heterosexual to 100% homosexual... with an awful lot of gray area in between. You could just have a "girl crush" on this woman or this may be the first (or only) woman that you'll have sexual feelings for. In MY OPINION- note the caps... it's ONLY my opinion- this would make you bisexual. If you are at all uncomfortable with the idea of being bisexual, then fortunately for you you never have to act on it (I think that's maybe a perk of bisexuality... LOL).
The bottom line is that whatever your sexual orientation, it's okay. If you don't feel comfortable taking this any further, then just enjoy the fantasy.  |
LOL- "girl crush"- never thought about it. I'm at mid-life, far from adolesence... who knew? I think I feel better just by "saying" it out loud, even on an anonymous internet board. It is an intoxicating feeling at this time in my life. As for acting on it, since we are both in committed relationships that is not likely to happen. I value her friendship too much. Thanks for responding!