[dancingdoc2]

Hello Joan,
I apologize for the tardy reply. I do not constantly monitor the Sticky posts.

> I've never achieved an orgasim while he's inside me. How does one achieve this?

Very few sexual positions lend themselves to providing the necessary and constant contact between bodies in order to generate the ongoing friction required. That said, what a caring and knowledgeable lover will do is to reach around and finger his partner while stroking.

> And, how does one achieve multiple orgasims when they can't even achieve one?

Are you saying that you cannot achieve an orgasm from intercourse, or, that you have yet to experience an orgasm, period, like from masturbation?

For the sake of discussion, I'll presume the former. If this is the case, then have your partner finger you while stroking. If you want, he can do the same thing during Foreplay if you are interested in having orgasms from a hand job and/or oral stimulation.

Once you've had the first orgasm, the second, third, etc., can generally come in quick succession, usually with just a few moments of quiet time in between.

Each woman reacts differently and differently at different times during the month. Explore and learn together just how to go after those additional climaxes. Masturbation offers a great path toward self discovery and can be a great way to learn how to achieve multiple orgasms. Once you know what it takes and how to achieve them on your own, you can then teach your partner what is required.

Guys can also enjoy multiple orgasms, although, we are limited to perhaps two or three additional ones while the typical woman can enjoy many more and in quicker succession. The male multiples are spread out between about ten and thirty minutes. This being the case, you can keep him interested during his refractory period {down time) while he pleasures you again and again. Also, one or more of your additional climaxes can be timed to occur with one of his. Working the "system" this way keeps the "fires" burning, and prolongs your time together.