[dancingdoc2]

> I was wondering though, since I've never had an orgasm... and I can't really masturbate (never works)......when I try rubbing my clitoris, on the time I've been doing it, it seems like I can't do it anymore, like my fingers won't do it... i don't know how to explain exactly,

You're right, this explanation is unclear. Please try again.

I'm not sure if you mean that your fingers become tired or something else. If this is what you mean, consider that during the early stages of arousal our fingers/hand move much more slowly and globally around the area. As we begin to zero in on an orgasm and near the peak of our arousal, many changes take place including focusing in on the approaching orgasm to the exclusion of everything else around us. Up to a point, the closer the orgasm is the faster our fingers or hand moves.

Brandye states that about 25% of women cannot climax. You won't know for sure until you give this process your all. To help the process along, go to the bathroom shortly before because we sometimes get the feeling of needing to pee. If you know the bladder is empty then you will recognize this to be a false signal and can push right through the sensation.

> but would that mean that is getting too sensible, and that i should start touching it indirectly?

Sensible? Sensitive??

Try touching the clitoris through the inner labia or by tugging on one or both. You can also work up an orgasm by rubbing or massaging the shaft of the clitoris.