2 out of 6 partners have done oral on me. But #6 is my fiance, he lives an ocean away and can't visit much until we get the visa, and we havn't had a chance to do much physical. I think he would go down on me. Anyhow, first two were disappointing, they were the same 2 who did oral on me. I think the first guy, I wasn't really ready mentally to be having sex with anyone so I think that is why it did nothing for me. Maybe he just wasn't good at it. I married the second partner, he thought he was good because he used to hang out with some strippers, but I think it was part of their job to pretend, or maybe they liked different things. Ever woman is different, so of course maybe I wouldn't be impressed by something they liked.
I think I felt teeth, or maybe he was sucking too hard. But it was really uncomfortable. I told him and he said, "oh no you just need to relax." Or, "no it just feels so good right now you only think it hurts." Uh. No. It DID hurt. Dummy. Moral: listen to the woman.
Personally I don't like cold air down there, or having the warm air sucked up leaving cooler air in it's place. He did some slurping sounding thing to get the liquid off his teeth (something like that?) and it was like cool/cold air was blown there and I hated it.
I became self-conscious that I don't come fast enough. That puts pressure on me to a point where I couldn't really enjoy it. I liked his finger inside me like a penis well enough. He would get bored. I don't know if he really enjoyed it or not, the way his thingy got soft. I think one time he even asked me if I was done yet. Usually he would give up. There were several things wrong with that relationship. The sex was only part of it - still a big part, but by no means the only thing. I think our problems in bed were a symptom of problems outside of it. At least half of the problem was related to intimacy, which includes the sexual stuff.
I think this time around things will be different. This time I know more what I like and I know I need to communicate better about it. And not let my fiance (once he becomes my husband, we're not having sex before marriage) proceed too fast to sex. He knows little about sex, being a virgin (I found this rare beast living in another country, with his loving but strict parents), so he doesn't know how fast of slow things are supposed to go. I will keep him as slow as I need, in order to actually be ready, and if that takes as long as I used to worry it did with my ex, well my Love is a blank slate ready for me to write on. Oh I love my rare creature!
