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G(rafenberg)-Spot-

Much has been written about this controversial "spot". You can do a GOOGLE search as well as read the links on the front page of this site for much more information. What follows is a synopsis.

* Trim your nails and discuss with her what you are about to do.
* The G-spot is located about 2" inside the vagina along the anterior {front) wall.
* It feels like a spongy area about the size of a quarter. It can also feel like a series
of ridges like a miniature washboard.
* Enlist her help in locating it and in providing feedback on how she is responding to your caresses.
* It is thought to share a common heritage with the Prostate gland

* Stimulating it is best accomplished when a woman is very highly aroused. Rub or massage it instead of trying to do something with it on a transitory hit and miss touch and go basis with the penis during stroking. The G-spot, like the Prostate, provides its greatest augmentation to an orgasm when it is massaged immediately prior to and perhaps during an orgasm.
* While the clitoris demands a light touch, the G-spot requires much firmer pressure.
* A specially designed vibrator works wonders; although do not over do its use.

* As with all orgasms by whatever means, as one is approached, do not change anything with regard to how she is being stimulated. In other words, if what you are doing is working, and she is getting closer to the trigger point, NEVER EVER stop, change tactics, change position. The rule here as any woman will tell you is to keep on keeping on doing what you are doing until the climax is triggered. Once it has, she may or may not want you to continue the stimulation. Until you learn otherwise, continue the stimulation right on through her climax.

+ Now, having just said, don't stop, there can be a time when you might want to tease her by pausing and letting her sense of urgency subside. Doing this once may be OK once in a while as long as you deliver in the end. It is the end that I am talking about. When the two of you have "primed" her arousal and are now working at triggering her climax--then do the NEVER EVER stuff.

It is important for each person in control to know his/her partner's responses to stimuli. For example, women often become frustrated and can sometimes loose a great deal of excitement if her partner puts a pause in the proceedings just prior to her achieving an orgasm. Do this more than once and she will not be a happy camper. So, what is good for the gander is not always good for the goose. A guy's ardor can be greatly increased if his partner pauses one or more times on the climb toward a climax, then starts again a few moments later. Rather than stopping her climb by pausing, consider modulating your stimulation so it does not stop, just relaxes a bit before intensifying a few seconds later. She should not loose any hard-fought ground this way. Understand that frustration can be maddening and neither of you want this.

I have to pee-

No, not likely, especially if the bladder has recently been emptied. Because the G-spot and urethra are in close proximity, it is possible that rubbing the one causes a false sensation of needing to pee. Just ignore the sensation and let go and continue the massage. In time this false signal will go away.

Not all women react when a massage is attempted. If you happen to be among those who enjoy this form of stimulation, you will find that it will greatly augment the sensations from other caresses going on at the same time and will help jump start an orgasm. Moreover, it is often possible to experience G-spot orgasms.