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I can understand your view about your gf's behavior! I can understand being upset w/her!
The FWB thing here was generally men who I had a good friendship w/and for some reason (one of us was involved w/someone) we did not explore beyond just being friends. Then when we found we were both "free" and in some need of attention, it took off from there & always realizing it would be nothing more. But it always went back to just friends b/c that is all we really were, just attracted to each other. Neither my male or female friends who are gay, are attracted to me, so that was never an issue.
But one of my gf's who's gay dates quite a bit, and I have the opportunity to meet her latest. Now that is an interesting dynamic, I get the evil look from the new girlfriend for a while until she realizes there is nothing going on, I am straight, and not intruding on her relationship!
To generalize, I believe women (gay or straight) are more jealous then men. Someone will prob. shoot me down on this one, but it's what I have found. So, I believe this is why my friendships w/my gay male friends is much easier!
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