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it does make sense that a gay man would have slightly better intuition about men considering sex being such an intimate vulnerable experience. and as wierd as it sounds that a girl would have her gay friend judge a straight mans character i guess no one can blame you for using the resources available.
I guess my annoyance is kind of the idea that a women would bond and trust a gay male before she would willingly do so with me.
I guess its the backlash of how many men consistently make advances on every women they meet. so i think its naive for a women to deny the fact that they would rather befriend a gay man than a straight man. I really believe and understand why that would happen.
another question along the lines of this would be:
"how likely is it that females start to fall for their gay friend and maybe even make a move on you"
I wonder cause i study a lot on attraction and a major part of attraction with a women is physical playful flirting. And it seems as though there are no men better at this than a gay guy. So i wonder how likely it is for a women to try and cross those lines? even playing on the idea of "want what you cant have" theory
Its funny how popular a movie like "chasing aimy" is, and trying to picture a movie with the opposite scenario and wonder if it would be just as accepted as a realistic story. (for all who dont know chasing aimy is about a lesbian falling in love with a straight man)
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