LOL, DVD. Amen, indeed!
As I said, I can deal with a guy who says, "It's painful." or "I don't like it." but the attitude of "I'm too good..." GRRRRRR.... I probably fall fairly close to the butch catagory (or so I prefer to believe...LOL) and there is NOTHING submissive about my sexual goings-on.
Bottom guys can- and usually ARE- the more agressive of gay men.