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Originally Posted by oberon
I will say that my pet peeve is gay men who loudly announce that "I'm ONLY a top. I'd NEVER bottom!" I understand that some people find receiving anal sex unpleasant, but that attitude of it being somehow beneath them really P.O.'s me. It's not necessary that I HAVE to be able to have anal intercouse with a guy, I just want to know that the option is there. My own personal little idiosyncrasy.  |
Amen Oberon! I usually bottom because I both like it but also I have problems topping and staying hard with a condom on (which of course is the only way I'd do it except for my partner). But if I catch a hint of 'tude from the other guy that he's too "macho" or whatever to bottom then the deal's off. The "dominant / submissive" aspect of it that some guys buy into is a load of crap and the act has nothing to do with how "masculine" you are. Look at the number of posts on this board from straight guys who enjoy having their asses manipulated by their wives or girlfriend. It's simply another sexual activity and (for me) carries no more significance than any of the others.