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Hi Lovely,
I don't really think that more men than women marry and then finally decide to deal with being gay. I think it just seems that way because the men tend to get more press. It seems to be a bigger deal to be a gay man than to be a lesbian (probably because straight men find lesbians- at least the idea of lesbians- interesting).
As for your own bisexual relationships... I've discussed before my definitions of gay, straight and bisexual- and I won't bore anyone with them again. I think "bisexual" actually covers a lot of ground. It may just be that you are only sexually attracted to women, but find more emotional/romantic stability in a heterosexual relationship. Or- who knows??- you just may not have met the right woman for a serious relationship.
In any light- by MY definition- if you are seeking out any kind of sexual and/or romantic relationship with members of both sexes then you are bisexual.
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