[mormegil]

hi ive just split up with my girlfriend. she told me that she needed time to think and that it wasnt me it was her. are these just the usual cliches to make me feel better or do women sometimes mean it? i laughed when she said it was not me it was her cause its been said so many times before (not to me but in general). also we were gonna meet and talk things over but she told me she couldnt face it at the last minute.
she says she wants to be friends and we talk and stuff and its not awkward but then the other day she was taking her break at the same time and we talked with other people around and she text me and i replied and she said "ok sexy" and i didnt know what to reply and she sent me another one asking why i didnt send kisses on the end of my texts anymore. i text back saying cause she wanted to be friends i didnt want her to think that i still wanted her. she text back saying but you do. i didnt reply i just told her that she knew i did and changed the subject. later on she blew me a kiss. and when i finished told me she didnt want me to go and that i had to stay and talk to her.
a couple of days later she finished work before me and came to see me cause i was really stressed out. she made a bad joke about me getting with someone else (who i spend my lunch breaks with and my ex thinks she wants me and gives her evils) so i walked off she grabbed my arm and told me she was only joking but it hurt me for her to say it. she said fine keep walking then so i did and she said no wait and came back to me and apologised.

does she really need time to think? why does she keep touching me? is she confused as to whether she wants me or is she just messing around? should i tell her it hurts me when she does these things?