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Hi every one im new to this sight.
I have had anal sex with two guys, i was never exactly grossed out by doing but not really that keen to do it just i suppose a bit curious as ill try anything once. I met this guy we'd been together for a couple of months until he told me his ultimate fantasy was to have anal sex with a girl so after a lot of ky we tried it and he loved it and i agree with all you girls it does seriously hurt at first cos its really hard to relax cos as soon as it hurts you tense up and the muscles in your arse are really strong and tight so when you tense it can really hurt both of you so you just have to be really slow and STAY RELAXED but i found if he stroked my clit at the same time it relaxed me and then it feels great.
So anyway with a new guy now who i love loads which makes such a difference cos we're so comfortable talking bout things but straight away he said it was a definite no go area and got a bit annoyed so i didnt mention it for a while until we had anal sex which he loved so i mentioned fingering him but again a no go area but he loves playing with my arse so i thought he'd like it back finally last night whilst licking and sucking his balls i slipped a finger near his arse and i could tell he really liked it but he told me to stop and said he didint want it so again went back to what i was doing and stroked just under his balls which he loved so slipped them down a bit again i could tell he really liked it he just wouldnt relax and enjoy just kept saying it was gay so i just firmly told him to relax open his legs and took it really slow i didint put my finger inside as i know from personal experience he's got to be relaxed and comfortable with it, so i just stroked round his arse and applied light pressure as i sucked his cock and he loved it he said afterwards how shocked he was how amazin but different it felt, so this wknd we'l go all the way but i wanted some help for once your in there is it similar to a girls arse so should i do similar to what i would do to myself? i think im so keen to do it to him cos its the only thing really similar in sex like foreplay obviously feels very different for a male than it feels to a girl but if you both finger each others arses i guess it must feel quite similar so its easyier to relate to each others pleasure if you get what i mean and also it feels a bit naughty which is such a turn on to me!
Sorry my first post is so long!!
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