[dancingdoc2]

Well, there are really two situations to be addressed. The first is the length of time it takes to bring your partner to climax; secondly, muscle fatigue. As for the latter, I remember as a new dance student that I had to learn how to hold my partner with what is called a "dance frame". My arms were not used to being in this position for three-four minutes and quickly became tired. I trained them while driving an hour to and from work by holding the steering wheel like I would a partner and with my left arm out the window.

Another scenerio is when each of us began masturbating. Think back and try to recall how tiring it was to rock your wrist back and forth. Well, the same holds true for trying to stimulate her with movements you are not used to. Now, I must say that doing this for more than a few minutes is not a good solution to the bigger situation which is why it is taking her so long to climax. For this, I suggest devoting more time to making out and then to foreplay instead of fingering her clitoris and environs too soon.

We all have an arousal curve and if you begin certain activities before we are ready then it will take much longer to achieve. It sounds to me like you are relying upon lots and lots of fingering to get her to the point of a climax instead of what the two of you should be doing which is to raise her passions to this high point, first, with lots of making out.

The same holds true for guys. From several recent posts it seems to me that the trend among some young men is to rely upon lots and lots and lots and lots of stroking to get them off---WRONG. Stroking maintains an already high state of arousal while thrusting peaks this and carries us beyond the point of no return. If the two of you are not spending at least half an hour to making out then you are probably starting way to early to peak her arousal just from fingering. Do this when she indicates that she is extremely turned on.