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No one is slamming her... they are telling her the opinions that she "asked" for...
Any ways... for those of you who think that cheating is the answer or swinging or seeking for sexual pleasure outside your marriage/relationship & didn't forewarn your DH/SO, sorry, but the respect and lack of morals is unreal.
How would you feel if the table's were turned???
Sure, the guy said "go elsewhere" but did she sit him down & say "I am going outside the marriage, this is the man, are you okay w/ this?" that never happened which is why it was wrong to begin with AND she stated that her DH would be VERY upset if he found out. How much more should I say here??? It's not something that he would be happy with, but if you are gonna do that, tell them, and at least let them know what is gonna happen to give the other person the opportunity to leave or make a decision whether or not they want to stay in that situation. That's the part that was wrong here, the lack of honesty & sneaking behind his back for another rendezvous.
I don't call ppl a slut or a whore unless they are getting paid for that act, but in this case she wasn't getting paid so I never called her a whore or a slut. Just stated my opinion, which is what she wanted, right???
Hey, if ppl out there are into going outside their relationship/marriage & all parties involved are okie dokie w/ that decision, more power to you, there are plenty out there that do it. But in this case, not all parties are aware, she said that he wasn't aware. And NO it's not possible to love someone w/ all of your heart & go out at screw another person for sexual gratification & everything be fine. At some point feelings/emotions get in the way & it becomes a large jealous issue.
IMO, if you love someone, sex isn't everything. JMO
GL, this issue is done for me... it's clear that there are ppl on this board who have no freaking morals and think that sex is the main part of a relationship. Sure it can throw things way off, but it's not everything. Ppl on this thread are in LT-relationships or are married...this shouldn't be about "having an affair" as her post states or "cheating" on ppl, it should be about making things better in bed w/ the person that you are with, not cheating, lies & hurtful actions. But I guess some ppl on this board don't care now a days??? That stuff is no longer sacred? I thought sex was between 2 ppl who LOVED each other or did I miss something? When did it ever involve 3, 4, or more persons & lying or cheating? I don't get that...
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