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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
Look if sex didn't matter then he'd not feel like hell at his inability - so, yes, sex does matter in a marriage.
He gave her permission whether he realised it or not. Now they have to deal with the results. Slamming her is not going to help either of them at this point.
The choices remain divorce, returning to monogamy, or permitting her to go outside for just sex.
In spite of what bruins said - it takes a great deal of trust to swing or to permit your lady to have outside relations.
One point must be made, however, Alisha made one mistake. She did not involve her husband in her partner selection. Both husband and wife must go hunting for this additional male together. The additional male has obligations in this relationship not only to the lady but also to her husband. He must take good care of her, for example. A discussion between the two men is essential and the husband must approve of this man.
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How in the hell did this turn into a discussion about swinging?!?!
Swinging is NOT an option in this case. Only a miniscule number of people can function in "open" relationships, and nowhere in this thread did I see evidence that Alisha's marriage was a good candidate for that.
Exactly, how did he "give her permission"?