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OK... first off, as a California resident: Yes, thousands of Mexicans come to California and find employment. However, the great majority of these immigrants are illegal aliens, who can find only the lowest kind of work because the government profits from having undocumented farm workers and dishwashers. If you were willing to risk you life crossing the Mexican border and give up your aspirations to spend your life in servitude to a country that doesn't recognize you as existing, then sure, you could be in California too. Let's not rag on the Mexicans.
Second.... if you don't want to be in this new relationship, tell the girl that. If you let her wait around for you to get over the ex, this will not be a good relationship for either of you. You can either tell her the truth or try to make the relationship work and get over the ex.
I'm with the above poster... if you REALLY love this girl that much, you wouldn't be worried about committing to her. That tells me that you have doubts about whether it ever would have worked with Miss California. So... make a decision. Do NOT wallow in self pity. Either 1. get on with your life, and forget about the ex. or 2. go back to the ex and see if you can make it work and forsake your dream job. The choice is up to you... but you need to make it now instead of moping around.
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