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Very informative post Brandye. As you said the g-spot is as much faith as science..especially for those that haven't experienced a vaginal orgasm yet. Let me share what little bit I do know about it and what I have came to learn in my love making to induce it. My first experience..or rather my ex-wife's first experience came several years after being married. I was in the army working as a medic in a Hospital and was being trained in the Physical therapy dept. I was learning Deep Tissue Massage..and thought I would practice my skills on her one night...I honestly hadnt attended sex to be the outcome of this...BTW we had by then found ourselves in a routine when it came to sex...very little foreplay...oral sex then the event...boring I know but I was younger then. After about 45 minutes of massage my ex was so turned on we went straight to the main event...When she orgasmed...she was as shocked as I...there was very little clitoral stimulation during this and she said that was something that she had never experienced before....Since then I have determined that massage was and is Her turn on...That is just what does it for her....we of course incorporated that into our love making for the remainder of our marriage...Btw she has since remarried...he is a physical therapist.....My dating since my divorce has been just as informative...one girlfriend loved to kiss....this might sound like a no brainer....but when we went out for the night....we would find several minutes here and there to just make out....as tactfully as possible of course...hidden away but not too hidden away to where we could do more than just kiss...another responded similar but to touch...nothing too naughty...actually rather more from innocent carresses....What all of these share I believe is that they all start from a point well before what the average man would consider foreplay...and I believe it is how turned on a women goes into the traditional foreplay that determines the outcome. Just my two cents worth.
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