[EvilEvilKitten]

Any bleeding and/or discomfort is momentary and transient. Both of you should be aroused in a private setting and have some degree of care for the other. Condoms are always mandatory. Slowly, gently enter but do not stop. When resistence is met, take a deep breath, relax into it while he slowly continues to press against the hymen. When the hymen breaks he has to be careful not to plunge forward as hitting the cervix hurts so he has to remain in control of the motion. Once this has been done, you can begin working on having orgasms.