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ok. being a man i find it a tad bit offensive if women think that we all expect them to use contraceptives and expect them to be more responsible than us, i think what the situation REALLY is, is that men expect women not to rely on the guy alone to provide protection. i share responsiblity in a heartbeat, but i think its a bit rude for a man to ALWAYS have to go pick up the condoms, it would be a nice jesture if she bought them once and a while too. and it takes two to tango, she should also bring a pair of dancing shoes just incase her partner forgot to bring them to the dance floor. get what im saying?
second. men dont want to take the pill because ITS EXPERIMENTAL! for all we know our penises will rot off, or the reduction in hormones will kill our sexdrive, making the male birth control useless. one thing ladies should know is we men are very sensitive to what things can do to our wedding tackle. even a slight risk of damage to the male genetailia makes us hesitant to take new drugs. after all us guys have everything hanging out in the open all vulnerable, we got to protect "our little guys." think about it, if you asked any guy if he rather got kicked in the nuts or punched in the face hed take face every time lol.
id volunteer for the experiment if,
1, if pregnancy results they compensate me and my new family so i dont get totally screwed from their experiment.
2, if the drugs have some nasty side effects they compensate me for the medical bills required to fix it
3, if it works out i would like a lifetime supply of the stuff, but i wont ask for that unless they offered it.
but will they do any of that? probably not, so if you think its a matter or a man being arrogent to assume the female has to be responsible with contraceptives your wrong, its a matter of risk of bodily harm and a risk that a child to feed may result if the experiment fails.
ps. dont buy statistics they can mean anything, you can pull anything you want out of them which is why few people trust them.it reminds me of high school when they totally inflated accedental pregnancy rates even with protection in order to scare us into not having sex. but yea sorry to go off on a tangent, just watch statistics carefully.
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