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I had an interesting convo with my boyfriend last night, in which I brought up that he never lets me finish him off just with a hand job. I can get him really hard and really excited manually, but then he always pushes me away and wants to orgasm in another way (oral or sex). That's fine, but it makes me feel like I am doing a crappy job.
Last night I spoke to him about it and basically he told me that hand jobs are not that exciting for him, and that I will never be able to compare to his own expertise at it. Understandable - I haven't had 25 years of experience and constant access to the equipment! But I'd like to get better at it. I have asked him to masturbate in front of me to show me what he does but he's not really that into it and doesn't seem to care to ever teach me.
I guess this isn't such a big deal, I just feel pretty inadequate in this area. It'd be nice to be able to give him a hand job to completion at least once, and I'd also enjoy watching him cum. Should I just give up at this point and accept it's never going to happen?
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