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I have this issue as well.
I have NEVER been able to orgasm, and I've been sexually active for 7 years, and had some pretty attentive partners who tried their hardest. Not to mention my own attempts, manually, as well as toy-assisted. i reach a plateau of pleasure and then it just goes downhill from there. I dont make it a goal or put lots of pressure on achieving it. But it sure would be nice one of these days.
Not only is it annoying for me, but it takes a toll on my partner as well, making them think they can't please me. Although I reassure them that they certainly do. I've read numerous books on female sexual disorder, all of them seem to chock it up to women being too timid to try masterbation, or because of botched surgeries or a mentality that leaves them ashamed about sex.
None of which applies to me. Ive read the statistics, which often vary, saying that anywhere from 1/4th to 3/4ths of women will never experience orgasm. Now, that is really depressing. With so much attention paid to men's sexual disorders, and the viagra craze.. its a real shame no one has come up with a remedy for women who are suffering silently.
someone help!
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