[nursefluffykins]

rawbob u mentioned that you were married prior to realizing/accepting that you were gay, and that you even were somewhat of a homophobe... how did you start to realize that you were homosexual, ... when you were married did this affect your sex life? you mentioned that you loved your wife so i guess you were able to share an emotional connection with her... you dont have to answer if you find this too personal, i'm just curious in part because my boyfriend is somewhat homophobic (well he says stuff about finding homosexuality gross, but we hang out with a group of friends and sometimes a gay guy is there and he has no trouble talking to him or anything), and my bf also kind of has a low sex drive (well what i consider low anyway, it seems like i initiate more often than him, but mind you he's just shy in general as a personality trait, not just in bed)... so anyway not that i think he's gay (didnt really cross my mind till i read about your experience lol, well that and once apparently my mother told me that my sister in law called him a "faggot" (sorry i dont use that word myself personnally, just quoting the sis in law here, but she was drunk and can be mean like that) but what you describe about having been homophobe before admiting to being gay got me curious to hear more about your experience with your wife in that regards...

Cheers, keep up the good work, fluffy.