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Old 06-13-2006, 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted by echo1
I have always been hetro. I also have a fantasy that involves another man. I don't know if I should just keep it to myself or try and make it a reality. I've never been with another man before but this fantasy always makes me want to try..... What should I do?
Hi Echo,
If you are single and not involved with anyone then that's the time to try out your fantasies. If you have a partner, then it's more difficult to engage in fantasies that involve someone else. My personal opinion is that in such a case you'd need the approval of your partner.

That being said, there isn't a "sex police"- at least, not yet- who require that you choose a sexuality and stick to it. If you want to explore this, then go looking for someone who would be interested. Make yourself very plain- as in, "I'm only looking for an experience. NOT a relationship." I'm sure you'll find people interested. Get to know the person and make sure it's someone you feel safe with. Above all, play safe.

Good luck and take care.
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