DancingDoc: I get your name now! I did ballroom for a bit, but never found a partner who could lead me.
'Broken'- that is a silly way of saying I'm on my period. I had acouple of male friends who would get green at the meantion of periods, and mine are REALLLY bad so that was my way of telling them to be more gentle with me, I'm 'Broken'.
My partner is very reserved, modest, and to himself. If he found out I was trying to get more info by talking about hj's with total strangers he would never speak to me again! He is really trying to talk more and tell me what he likes/doesn't like, but it isn't easy for him. Non-verbal cues are about all I really get. Occasionally he will show me what he likes or a word or two, but mostly I have to watch pretty close. We are still very new lovers and I am sure communication will become better and better with ever new positive feedback love-session we have.
ps- what was my hint??
Katie- I think you are on to something! I never really thought about that before, but it makes sense! I don't care for a heavy approach for pleasuing my vagina. I have taght myself for years to go soft and light, to vary the rythme. It would make sense that I would try to apply that logic to my partner! Wow. You have just 'blown' my mind! I will have to think about that for a bit. Thank you!