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I've said it many times, that stroking during intercourse is not the way to build up to an orgasm. Stroking is for maintining an already existing high state of arousal. Thrusting, takes this over the top to trigger an orgasm. That you have to pull out and do some additional stroking means that you were not at the trigger point of an orgasm when you initially began intercourse. If you were, then you might have dallied too long; either way what you are doing is not wrong, although I would suggest letting her have a hand in (re)building your arousal.
If you want to be aroused to the brink of an orgasm, then two things are generally required. First; that the two of you devote lots and lots of time to making out; second, that the two of you teach each other how you masturbate and then guide each other's hand several times until you learn to mimic his/her specific and unique movements, rhythms, and pressures. Let her do the mechanics before entering. Once in, stroking will maintain, and then when you are ready, thrusting will trigger the orgasm.
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