I was scouring the internets looking for techniques on hand-jobs and came across this site. I have read most of the threads I think would contain the answers to my problem but alas, I didn't find them.
So, I thought with my first post I would ask my question. A little back-ground first?
I am 24 years old and HORRIBLE at hand-jobs. I have never gotten the rythme right, or the pressure is to soft. I really find the whole experience to be embarrassing and wrong feeling.
I am with a man who is trying very hard to talk with me and keep comunication open. He has 'shown' me what he likes and I find I get so hot watching that I can't take notes. So then he tried to show me with his hand covering mine, and the same problem. This man is just to sexy and distracting! LOL
So, to get to my problem. I find that I can't <please note 'can't'> can't grip him hard enough for him to find the most pleasure with me. He gets frustrated and I get embarrassed. I really wish to please him but my fear of hurting him is really getting in my way. Even when he reassures me, I still can't grip him hard enough. As I worry more and more about doing this act 'wrong' my rythme gets screwy and I tend to just either stop the HJ and BJ him, or ask he finish himself.
Does anyone have any ideas on how I can alter my perception of 'to hard'? I really honestly want to please him.
thanks for any advice-Megan
ps-Lilly, great idea with the sleave. I saw a sleave like that with a female's mouth sorta scuplted into the front.
