Thread: Fingering 101
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Old 05-06-2006, 12:43 PM
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The most important thing it taking your time, no good if you are waiting for someone to come into your room or walk up the alley.

the first time you Need to spend a lot of time kissing and gently rubbing against and touching each other so you are in the mood, most girls get wet easily if they are relaxed. Spend a lot of time lightly rubbing her whole pussy and around the clit, you will know when she is ready for a finger to be inserted as she will feel very warm and wet.
Dont even try if she is not naturally wet and she wont like it.
Just put it in, then take it out again and continue to rub her up and down her lips then try again, I'm telling you patience is the secret.

Dont go to fast or spend to long, come out again and ressume rubbing her up and down her lips, ask her did she like it, if she says yes, dont just stick your finger in again, ask her does she want you to do it again, if she says yes it will be much better, and I can gaurantee wetter as she is the one who wants it now.

if she didnt like it, ask her why, maybe she was still too dry and cant get wet enough naturally, you will then need to look at some kind of lubricant.

girls you in order to prevent your first fingering from someone else being unpleasent, you need to know your body, fingering yourself and knowing what you like is the only way, every gf i have had has told me that, know what makes you wet, and your experience will be much nicer for you and your bf
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