Hi moose i read that thread and you know i really dont mind him mastrubating ...its the porn equation that comes into it. It's like i go over to his and I know the night before that he's been watching a dvd with sum heavy stuff on it bcoz im clever like that ...keep my eyes and wits about me at all times... its that that annoys me more than anything, that he' s been looking at these women who take it every which and every way and indulge in fantasies albeit edited...and i guess i just feel inadequate and that it will continue and continue when im not really that comfortable about it,
