> > By the way, I almost never ever ejaculate when I'm sleeping, so it has to be directly connected.
>Are you certain?
Well, It happened the 2 weeks I was trying it, it didn't happen before, (only like 1 or 2 times in years), and it never happened after it (it was more than a month ago, i think).
> > I think a solution would be to have a "normal" orgasm after a "failed try", but it's a bit time consuming.
> So...what's an extra three or four minutes?
It's very hard to have an orgasm after ejaculating, I have to wait a bit. I can keep myself with an erection, but the sensation is different and sometimes I can't even come unless I stop, let it subside, wait a bit, and then restart all over again.
Thanks for the answers
EDIT:
To brandye: Thanks. I'm not really into the psychological factor, for now at least. I was just messing around and experimenting new stuff :P
The nocturnal ejaculations really did mess things up, but I'll try to go around the problem.
As for the "I can't figure why any man would want to do that but then I do not ejaculate when reaching orgasm.",
Well, the idea is to have pleasure and keep everything has it was before, and only ejaculate when I feel like it, after a good time of pleasure for me and my partner (not only pleasure from the orgasm, but from everything related with sex)
-Timido