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Use protection and take it slow, and if it hurts ask him to stop. If you don't think you're ready, you can ask him to stop too.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over three years and are still virgins (I'm only 17, he's 18). I went to the doctor to get birth control because we started talking about having sex so I figured I should be prepared/protected. My doctor was really nonchalant about it though, and just handed over the prescription. Is that weird? I figured she would be more probe-y and discuss it with me. I've been on the pill for a month now, but I'm wondering if we should still use other forms of protection? I'm assuming it would be a good idea. And if we use other forms of protection, he ejaculates early most of the time so should we try those extended-pleasure condoms or something? Or is there another way of keeping that from happening? Not that the first time has to go on forever or anything...Sorry, I have a lot of questions. I think we're ready, I mean...we really care about each other and we've talked seriously about it. Thanks in advance.
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