[Brandye]

And be careful what you are reading. We have some very active new folks here. That is great news for the Board and I am sure we all welcome them. There is a slight problem in that they seem to be early responders to whatever is posted - and they do not know what they are talking about. Some should be doing more asking and less responding.

One is a 14 yo male self-described virgin who seems to want to respond to specifically female issues. But needs basic terms defined. A couple others with little experience and no real learning are jumping on any topic and giving irrelevant, or worse, answers. Telling a woman how to get started when she is describing symptoms of what can become a serious condition is not helpful.

You can get good answers to almost anything concerning sex here - including being told to see your doctor. As a seeker of answers, however, you have to be a bit careful before accepting what is told you.