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Originally Posted by katiebug
I wonder the same thing. My BF doesn't want me to touch him anywhere near there either. In fact, every guy I have ever been with has cringed at the very thought of any kind of anal stimulation and refuses to let me do it. To be honest I am very curious and have always wanted to try it, I am not shy with exploring and wouldn't mind doing it for him to find out if he would really like it. But he keeps saying no. It's disappointing to me! I think for my BF it's embarassment issues - he keeps saying it's "dirty" and he doesn't want my hands/fingers to be "messy" or to gross me out. But I told him, as long as he washes well (which I know he does) and doesn't feel the need to go to the bathroom at that moment he should be fine. I let him do anal on me and it's never messy - so why would it be messy for me to do it to him? I assume anatomy for guys and girls is the same there. It's the only thing he absolutely WON'T do (and rimming) and I guess I just wish he'd be more open to at least trying it. How can you know you really don't like it if you never try it?
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ROFLMAOPIMP....okay this is GOOD cuz i thought I was the only guy like the above two!!....lemmee let you ladies in on a little secret...my girlfriend has been trying to talk me into this "exploratory" as she calls it and she says i'll feel some awesome sensations...Here's where it seems difficult and it ALL has to do with the "cleanliness" part of the deed...giggles...yes yes, we can clean that "forbidden" area (LOL) and keep it very very clean from the outside..the issue that some of us have ...we can't be "sure" what is on the "other-side" of anus...yes we've cleaned the total exterior,,,but what if?? what if there some uhhhhhhhh ummmmmmm
leftover stuff...oh gosh...this is hard to type and harder to explain...then while you ladies are doing this "exploration"...some stuff KAK??? LMAO..might get on yer finger...and the guy will JUST DIE OF EMBARRASSMENT....so I'm pretty sure we are all into trying that anal tickling/prostate massaging...BUT...there are some issues that we would totally have to be talked through! and made very comfortable about...I hope this helps...
