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Originally Posted by Lackadaisical
My boyfriend is VERY against anything around his ass at all, I'm guessing for embarassment issues, maybe? I don't know...it's just his only no-no, so I try to behave and puch the boundaries a little bit at the same time. I guess I just wonder why guys can be hesitant to try something, cuz I would LOVE to find out if that will make his orgasms even better....it's my favourite thing.
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I wonder the same thing. My BF doesn't want me to touch him anywhere near there either. In fact, every guy I have ever been with has cringed at the very thought of any kind of anal stimulation and refuses to let me do it. To be honest I am very curious and have always wanted to try it, I am not shy with exploring and wouldn't mind doing it for him to find out if he would really like it. But he keeps saying no. It's disappointing to me! I think for my BF it's embarassment issues - he keeps saying it's "dirty" and he doesn't want my hands/fingers to be "messy" or to gross me out. But I told him, as long as he washes well (which I know he does) and doesn't feel the need to go to the bathroom at that moment he should be fine. I let him do anal on me and it's never messy - so why would it be messy for me to do it to him? I assume anatomy for guys and girls is the same there. It's the only thing he absolutely WON'T do (and rimming) and I guess I just wish he'd be more open to at least trying it. How can you know you really don't like it if you never try it?