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During the early and mid teen years, regardless of maturity, I believe it is too early to have intercourse. Intercourse should be something that is reserved for a longstanding relationship; moreover, the longer a person holds off, the more it is appreciated and the better the experience can be.
Very often boys your age may say "I love you" and while you may have deep feelings for the girl, more often than not guys will say and do anything to get into her panties. Sex for teenage boys is more often than not, all about getting your rocks off with little or no consideration for the partner. I'm not suggesting that this is true of you, although, I believe you should reflect upon the matter.
Intercourse is not the be-all, end-all of sex. It is great, yet quite often, a good job of oral and hand stimulation will be more intense and pleasurable. Intercourse feels good, but it is the psyches that feel really good rather than the genitals. For this to come together for a couple, you really must age (read: mature) into the experience. Oh, sure, you can have recreational sex that includes intercourse but it's just not the same. Sex is much more than a physical experience and most teens simply do not get this.
When they do get it, as Brandye states above, they say they wish they had waited. Better me thinks for a pair of young horny teens to fool around up to the girl's/woman's limit or boundary and stopping short of actual intercourse.
> Also, can someone tell me what the first time's like? Does it hurt, what it feels like, etc.
Oh! some things in life simply have to be discovered. What fun is it for something so profound and important if you know what to expect. I could attempt to describe what the experience will be like, although, it would be like trying to describe the color blue to a blind person; besides, I've already given you a great answer, that being that a well delivered hand and blow job is much more intense.
Will it hurt? The answers are, yes, no, and maybe.
It will likely be uncomfortable for the woman, although this depends upon whether she has an intact hymen, the size of the penis, the resiliency of the vaginal opening, etc. It is rarely painful for a man, although if he is having trouble entering the back pressure against the shaft of the penis can be uncomfortable.
> Also, can someone tell me what the first time's like?
Nope. The reason why is because each match or paring of a man and woman is different. What happens is all based upon individual experiences, accumulated knowledge, expectations, angst, likes, dislikes, worries, whether the guy is gentle and caring or a clumsy oaf and so on and an on.
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