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Well, actuarially your chances of making it as a couple are slim. But, we are not statistics, we are people and you could be the ones beating the odds. The things going against you are the different stages of social development and the stages of physiological development. These you identify. I can also assure you that you will be wondering about others at some point. The "seven year itch" is real.
At the moment, you could be experiencing post-partum depression which would cause all sorts of negative thoughts to rise up. The demands of motherhood are beginning to be felt. This is not a time to be making a decision. Please continue your education because that is the greatest protection for yourself if things do not work out.
Your description of him could be that he is a bit immature and that may actually be in your favor.I would recommend a couple months of adjustment to the married and parental life and then a sit down with a counselor because there is a long road ahead for each of you. You describe is as getting yourself into a "mess." See what it looks like in six months.
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Brandye
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