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I'm not sure what it is, but I don't really enjoy sex all that much. I do think it is somewhat pleasurable, but not mind-blowing as some perceive it to be.

At first I thought that I hadn't had enough sex, with enough partners to make such a judgment. But as time progresses, it's becoming apparent that this is not the issue.

I don't really know if the problem is with my perception of sex (maybe I had a preconception that was unrealistic and therefore unattainable) or that I still haven't really had very good sex or maybe I'm just frigid. I don't orgasm during sex, but to be perfectly honest I really don't care. Most of the pleasure I derive through sex is intimacy and other secondary gains.

However, I would really like be able to actually enjoy the physical act more so I can stop feeling like something is wrong with me.

Any suggestions as to what might be the problem?