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Originally Posted by nursefluffykins
first bf: just turned 17
vitginity : 17 (well about a week before my 18th bday)Oral: somewhere in between lol..
swallowing came after a few years of experience
anal play: about 21
anal virginity : still there lol
here's an odd question directed perhaps to moose hd or any other guy
with a more limited repertoire ... ok so ive had 3 serious bf's in my life , a few years each... but my current bf has only had one.. me... we've been dating over a year... we have talked about plans of moving in together, saving for a house, etc.... its kind of weird to say but some part of me is just like paranoid that he has never been with anybody else before....
cuz when i was 19 and had only been with the 1 bf, my mind kinda wandered and i started to wonder what it would be like to have sex with a different person... is that a curiosity that happens alot? or am i just weird... well mind u there were other problems in that relationship that may have lead to me wanted to be with someone else , but still.... i really love my bf and part of me thinks its really sweet that he waited till he found someone he really wanted to be with (well that plus he's really shy) but part of me worries he may eventually feel like he "missed out" or something for not being with other people... i kinda brought it up once to him but he was like nah thats not going to happen to me... but i mean i dunno what can u do ...
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I can kinda relate to the situation. I will tell you this: the average guy - especially a shy type - will at some time be uncomfortable with the fact that other guys have had you and yet he has not experienced anyone else.
That is not to say that it will happen with him because I don't know him; everyone is wired differently. And even if he did end up feeling that way, that does not mean that he won't be able to work through it.
But you are smart to at least be aware of the fact that it may become an issue at some point in time.