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Nothing wrong with being bisexual.
I do believe that most people have a some bisexual in them, I also believe in the scale thing that moose_hd was talking about. My teacher at school, I was in the A-HA club (Anti-Homiphobic Alliance) and we were trying to make everyone more away of homosexuality and eventually eliminate all discrimination. Needless to say we might have reduced discrimination, but never eliminated it. This year when they made it they had to change it to GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) because the school board didnt like us having Anti in the name. But a bunch of idiot grade 9 girls joined, all they do is hang out and talk about unrelated things. It was going nowhere, I left.
Anyways, back to on topic. We used that scale. But I dont believe that there are many people that are 100% on either. There may be some, but I think its rare. Even if people wont admit it because they are too afraid to or are in denial. Maybe I'm wrong.
I personally think I'm more 65% straight, 35% gay. I find girls physically attractive, and I wouldnt mind have a sexual or emotional relationship with them. But its not the same. I find guys more attractive. Girls tend to be softer, and I want/need that possible roughness. Plus I could never picture myself marrying a girl, or being with them for long term. I dont know how to explain further as to why my preference is males since both can offer a lot of the same things. I dont feel like I can get that same feeling of being protected that I get right now in the arms of my guy if i was with a woman.
I also could never be with a guy who wasnt open with me about his feelings which a lot of Retrosexual men think is a feminie quality (I dont agree). Therefore I'm quite happy where I am now.
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