[Lonewolf*]

Originally Posted by michael.b

How Do You Get Vaginal Blood(or Whatever You Call It) Off Ur Bed Sheets?!!!!
Someone Tell Me Quickly Before My Mum Finds Out Lol

Very good question. I was worried about that since I plan to have sex with my boyfriend soon (ya I dont think I'll wait till I'm 18, I never had a reason to wait till then, I was just setting a time, and since I know I dont want to wait, and I know I'm ready...) I was wondering about the blood. Yes I've read all the posts in here, I've used tampons for a while... two-three years (my first period was nice enough to start the morning of my very first day of highschool that was a shock lol) but I've never been fingered so I'm going to assume I will still bleed.

We cant do it at my house, for obvious reasons. (Parents rules are door stays wide open when theres a guy in my room) My preference would be to do it at his place. (I would never be able to do it at a friends house, too weird. And being unemployed for the last two months means theres no one I can afford to rent a room or whatever) But then I was worried about the blood, I would find that weird to get up and theres blood on his sheets. I figured I could use a towel like someone wrote earlier, but my friend kept telling me that there would be too much and that it would just soak through. But I wouldnt think there would be that much.

I also dont know how to tell him, because he knows I wanted to wait till I was 18. But that ..isnt so anymore.

Someone wrote earlier that it was better for a girl to be on top to have control, but then another wrote that it was better for the guy to be on top (assuming that they are gentle and will stop if you tell them too) so which way is better? Which one causes less pain? My bf and I talked about it and said that he would definitly be on top for the first few times because we both figured this would be easier/less painful on me. So now that I'm hearing the opposite..I'm not sure. I would think the guy on top would be better?