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I have a question for Brandye. My current girl-friend is someone I've known for over two years but we have been dating only six weeks. Her philosophy is that sexual intercourse is for marriage only and vows that she has never been with a man "that way." I don't have a problem with this phil. per say but during forplay (yes, I have made a little progress) she will not allow any form of penetration in the vaginal/anal area. Her reason? PAIN!! I've suggested seeing a doctor to see if any physical problem is present but she says she not only won't see a doctor but has never had a ob/gyn exam! And doesn't plan to. She never displays anger, just a lot of determination. Any suggestions as to what I might do to ease her fear?
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