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I tell you anxiety is the worst thing that can happen to a man's sexual performance... In terms of penis size I'm one of those guys who thought of himself as extremely blessed. Every gf I had before the incident practically worshipped me in bed and I felt great about it as a young athlete.
However, when I was in college I finally was getting down to business with one girl and when I dropped my pants she took one long stare of horror and said "Oh my god that's waaay to big! Are you crazy?! Don't come near me!" It so happened that I was really into this girl, (even envisioned a future with her) and her having that reaction gave me the biggest anxiety problem for just about a year and some. Coupled with that there was the fear of sex period, and then the fear that if I was too big that I should try to finish as soon as possible so I wouldn't hurt her - so sexual unhappiness became my middle name. Good thing I found a girl who loved me for not only for me but loved my size and was willing to work through the issues I had. Now that that is over I am better than I ever was before but I have to say...
(1) be careful how you approach your men cuz it could have lasting effects
(2) size does matter to most women when the penis size is on either extreme - below 4 1/2 and above 8 inches.
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