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Okay, I'm at a bit of a loss here. I've been married to the most wonderful man for 7 years now. The sex has been horrific for 6.5 of the last 7 years. When we were dating, I knew he was small (3.5 in erect), okay reaalllly small, but it was new love and everything else was so perfect. We also spent a fair bit of time early on in the relationship drinking socially (he's Australian - it's a national pasttime:-), so a lot of the timing and technique problems that would have been red flags weren't really all that noticeable. What I have now is a husband with a really (do I need to say it again...reeeaaallly) small penis (my previous lovers were 7 and 8 inches - with the odd average sized fling thrown in), a serious timing problem (I can literally count to 5, we're talking 2 thrusts, 4 max, and all the skills of your average 16 year old. I do not know what to do. I love my husband dearly, wouldn't ever think about leaving him. Cheating is not really an option. Does anyone have any suggestions? Anyone out there faced with something similar? I've thought about a sex therapist, because I really do think that there can be some happiness if the timing and technique issues are taken care of (because well, anatomy is anatomy and there's nothing that can be done about that). Has anyone ever been? Would they be helpful in this kind of situation? I've tried teaching, we've tried books, nothing has worked.