[dancingdoc2]

Letting your imagination run wild is neither unusual or necessarily a bad thing, as long as you do not act upon a fantasy that is obviously a bad thing to do.

You will find lots of how to information on this forum and elsewhere, however, from your recount it seems that your wife requires why not information and for that I would recommend that she find a counselor in your area that specializes in problems associated with sex and romance. This is a specialty and not every therapist is qualified.

I believe she may have "issues" that need she may or may not be aware of that need to be dealt with. At the very least, she may need to hear from a third party that this or that is OK to do and that having sex a couple of times a week or once every day or two is OK. I don't know, she doesn't know, so I recommend she go talk to a professional and see what she can learn or perhaps discover about herself.