[dancingdoc2]

And in addition to what Mike just said, make arrangements with family or friends to ship the kids off for the night. When he comes home escourt him to the shower and do whatever. Better, would be to draw a hot bath and soak with him in the tub for half an hour so that he can relax, then take a shower. Do not use a wash cloth. Soap your hands and let them wander where they will. Once both of you are clean, then rinse off and pat him dry with a warm towel. Keep the lights low or use candles.

Plan to have dinner in (bed). Pick up some KFC or a pizza and eat it in bed.

To further relax him after his daily grind, give him a massage. As the full body massage ends, transition to an erotic massage and continue on to arouse his ardor and passion.

Make the evening about "us" with an emphasis on him and make sure he knows both aspects. He will undoubtedly want to know what's up so just tell him how much you love him, that your love for him is driving you wild with passion and you want him to experience it, too. If he balks, then hit the boy upside the head and tell him that your sex life has become routine and needs some spicing up in no uncertain terms and that this is one way you plan to rekindle interest and passion. You may have to do this again a second time. Nothing wrong with that either, unless on the third time he fails to pick you up and race into the bedroom or elsewhere on his own volition. Also, understand that he may put up some objections so be prepared to hush them and to encourage him to enjoy the "ride".

If he won't be in the mood after a bath, hands-on shower, and massage and now with one hand on his penis and the other elsewhere, I don't know what will. Maybe marriage counseling is called for in order to give him a "heads up".

I remember one story of a woman whose husband was deeply in love yet with three kids running around there just didn't seem to be room for fun and frolic. Her solution was to take some pocket money and through it out on the lawn and to tell the kids how much was out there and not to come inside until they found every last cent; moreover, they had to stay outside and not disturb mom and dad for at least an hour!