[dancingdoc2]

> (rainydayzsunshine} but even when its the best of best it still takes along time. i dont mind cause i like to make him feel good but i was just wondering why it might take so long?

Two things:

T#1 is that right out of the gate having just discovered masturbation, a guy begins to develop a unique and specific technique for bringing about a climax. Over the course of a few weeks he learns that certain movements, rhythms, tempo, and pressures, used at specific times based upon the feedback he is getting will bring about an orgasm in due course. When guys find what works we rely upon the method daily. Of course we may change the technique from time to time for variation, however, if we stray too far we either do not reach the trigger point of an orgasm, or, when it happens it isn't quiet up to par.

Girls are much the same way, I susspect.

T#2 is that we do not generally reach the trigger point of an orgasm by stimulating the glans in a way that mimics the oral techniques someone gives us. That said, it is often difficult or impossible to trigger an orgasm just from oral. More often than not, the best way is to combine oral and stroking. The two together are a dynamic duo!

If you want to take him to the brink quickly, you have to learn to mimic his stroking technique. This is best done by encouraging him to demonstrate how he masturbates and then for him to take your hand in his in order to guide your movements so that you can learn how to build his ardor in the manner to which he has become accustom. The same goes for you. Teach him how you finger yourself by guiding his fingers a few times until he gets the hang of it.

The next thing is to find his hot spots. The #1 hot spot is the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft). One or more additional hotspots can be found around the Corona Rim.

So, what is a girl to do? Stoking by itself will get him off. If you want to dramatically intensify his pleasure, switch to oral. If you want to send him soaring into the ozone, combine the two.

If you then want to trigger an orgasm when you know he is on the brink, concentrate on his method of stroking in addition to what you are doing with your lips and tongue and then let your thumb rub the Frenulum. A few swipes here and it'll be over in the blink of an eye.