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Hmm...Maybe I should have read this before I posted a topic about the male G-spot. LOL. But there seems to be mixed feelings about the whole anal stimulation thing for guys and girls.
I, personally, do not mind anal play. It kind of happened on accident, after my man "slipped" and OMG it hurt something terrible. He was soo excited after that and kept talking about how he would love to try it. He's an ass man. So we talked about it. Using a condom was an absolute must. But in order for a woman to enjoy it thoroughly, there has to be a huge amount of trust in her partner and LOTS of communication both before and during. He was quite gentle and kept asking me if it hurt, which it did at first; but felt much better after I got my vibrator out. OMG it was great. We do it every once in a while, but never spur of the moment. It's always something that we discuss doing before, as preparation is essential for hygenic reasons.
As for him, hmm...this has been a topic that HE actually brought up. I do stimulate his prostate via his perineum during BJs and he has said that I give the best head ever..HEHEHE. So, I went out, purchased some small anal beads and am waiting for the right time to try them. He is just as excited as I am. I don't necessarily find the act of anal play a HUGE turn-on. But what does turn me on is the idea that I can give him a mind blowing orgasm..to reciprocate the mind blowing orgasms he gives me.
The biggest thing I can stress whether you are giving or receiving is lots of commuincation. If you don't like it, don't try it. Educate yourself. Sex is not merely an act..the more you know and understand, the better you will be at performing and that works both ways.
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