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Quote[/b] (14yroldVirgin @ Dec. 05 2005,20:23)]IM curious, if the girl is hot enough, how can you loos ur boner... just curious.. i mean im a virgin (read the name) but i dont think that i could loose a stiffy if i was about to get laid, no matter how nervous i was... how does this happen? 
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I agree with you, I've never had a problem with losing it, and I don't think I could if I tried. Everyone is not "wired" the same, however, and for many nervousness does them in. Doubt, fear, nerves, and embarrassment are all big factors. It really doesn't matter how "hot" the girl is (it even makes it worse in some cases). Many times all it takes is a success or two and the problem is solved.
If you spend time reading similar posts, you will discover many things that contribute to this "problem" (mostly mental in nature). The main thing to remember is that everyone is different, and it runs from one end of the spectrum to the other.
Take care.
Edit: Oh...I forgot to mention cases of physical problems that lead to dysfunction.