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Hmmm... gotta point out that it's interesting you want more (guys fancying you) of what you don't like your boyfriend getting (girls thinking he's hot).
To some extent, jealousy is not bad. It can be a reflection of love. Unfortunately it is more often a sign of insecurity and lack of trust.
That said, the key is to manage your jealousy. It would be unreasonable to think you will never feel some. Just don't let it rule you and your relationship. It helps to recognize that it is simply a feeling. How you think about that feeling will help you manage it. For example, it's okay to not like someone calling him "hot," but it's not so okay to want to kill them. It is, afterall, a compliment!
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