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Ok first off, I want to make this clear to all the girls out there... PEE AFTER SEX!!! It sounds stupid and it is kinda hard to just get up an leave right after, but you really need to to avoid UTI (urinary track infection) These are horrible! They are caused by bacteria going up your uretha. Makes sense... there is lots of close contact in that area... Also, about the only way you can get one is by having sex... an easy way for you parents to find out, I have a friend that got one and thats how her parents knew she wasnt a virign. My mom had a horrible one right after college and had to go to the ER, so plase do!
Now for losing virginity...
If your prepared, and have been fingered a lot, etc, it wont be as bad. Its normal to bleed to an extent, but not profusly. Dont do anything too rough your first time, take it slow and easy, and i would say Missionary (girl lay down on her back on bottom with her legs spread and guy on top between her) is the best for this. Guy has most control, where is if the girl is on top, and is experienceing pain, its harder to continue. Also, my x, whom was my first (I was 18) didnt want to hurt me, and i was making faces of pain! So maybe cover your face somehow... so he cant see the look of agony! Also, LUBE is wonderful! Put it all over the penis and on the girl and get it over with, just go in quickly, like ripping off a bandaid, the quicker the better. And usually, as you go on, it hurts less, and if you have sex frequently, it will hurt less. Hope this helps some of you!
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