[Brandye]

Girlfriend on her back with butt elevated on pillow that brings the hip angle up. Keep her knees up and withdraw carefully leaving as much semen as possible in her. She should stay that way with knees and hips elevated for ten minutes or so. Then lie still for a while.

This is all designed to give the most sperm an opportunity to enter the cervical os. After that, they are on their own.

The optimal frequency of intercourse is every other day from the tenth to to the twentieth day of the cycle. Does not hurt to go all month because of irregularities of ovulation. Every other day allows the male time to replenish the sperm supply and also insure that there will be live sperm in her uterus and fallopian tubes at the time of ovulation.

Given your handle and a post on a different forum, why are you trying to conceive? Sure you are ready?